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Advice from REAL BOYS' VOICES

• Educate yourself and your community about the reality of bullying.
• Educate your community about the pitfalls of the Boy Code.
• Learn the warning signs of bullying.
• Show boys that you take the problem seriously but avoid shaming them.
• Create safe, "shame-free" zones to which the boy can retreat.
• Remind boys of the things you like about them.
• Solve the problem together.
• Help the boy to develop a group of allies.
• Stay connected to the boy.
• Be cautious about contacting the bully’s parents.
• Advocate for the boy at school.
• Get support for yourself too.

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